Gay Taurus Dating: The Patient

Dating The Gay Taurus: Why Bother?

If you ever hear the phrase "I'd like to play a game with you" and you happen to have a steel clamping mechanism attached to your head don't count on a Taurus lover to rescue you. It's not that he wouldn't know how, or would be too frightened to do so. It's just that he would be more likely to spend hours trying to figure out the riddle, and you would probably end up sans head.

Taurus is an earth sign, probably the most down-to-earth of all earth signs. When it comes to dating he tends to consider his options very carefully. He isn't looking for the kind of guy that everyone else is chasing after. He isn't looking for the sexy slut that somehow rules every season of the Real World. He is looking for a man that will be there for the long term. He has very little interest in a gay trading card collection. The gay Taurus seeks stability and security in a lover above all other traits.

This is not to say that you won't meet many hot, sexy and seemingly casual Taurus men that are down to get nasty. It just means that if you dig a little you will find that the Taurus man is not seeking a "relationship" with you unless you are the real deal. The gay Taurus is a very patient man, and he can afford to be.

Don't let his stoic personality fool you, he is one of the most sensitive signs of the zodiac. His armor is thick, but his skin is thin. Tauruses are true romantics, and if they love you you can expect to be put on a pedestal. No worries, you definitely won't be treated like a statue. A Taurus man will love the real you, not the idealistic vision most men see.

A Taurus man doesn't say "I love you" as easily as some of the other zodiac signs, but he will show it in other ways. He will be very generous with his gifts but they certainly won't be senseless or trivial. A Taurus man will be the one to buy you one nice expensive gift instead of a bunch of whimsical crap.

Taurus men are very practical by nature and the same applies to sex. He is basic and direct about his sexual pleasure. He is both passionate and sensual. and sees little difference between romance and sensuality. He will not wow you with new tricks nightly, but he has more than enough stamina to make up for that.

A Taurus man is a sensual, strong, and sensible man that won't let you down. You will be hard pressed to find a more faithful and affectionate man. When you are ready for someone to share your life with look no farther than a Taurus.

How to attract a Taurus...

You may suspect that a Taurus man is interested in you, but unless you make the first move you will probably never know. A Taurus is a bit slow in making up his mind and if you don't seize the moment it will be lost.

Show a Taurus that you enjoy spending time with them. Spend a bit of time entertaining them and keeping their interest. You will find they will be charming, interesting, and interested in what you say. A Taurus can get a little too deep thinking about things and go on and on. Just interrupt and move on.

A Taurus enjoys fine food and wine, if you are aiming to impress be sure to take them to a restaurant that knows what's up. He will also appreciate a good meal at your place, just be sure to make enough.

Tauruse men can be a bit money obsessed, but that can be used to your advantage at this point. Show him your prized possessions, he will surely appreciate them. Once you get a Taurus talking he will keep talking, if you aren't okay with that you are probably looking at the wrong man. Also, be sure not to forget to compliment a Taurus on their good taste.

Gay Taurus Erogenous Zones:

The neck and throat are the most sensitive area on a Taurus's body. Light touching and kissing on the neck are surely to stimulate. A good idea is to massage a Taurus. Focus with small circular motions around the earlobes and down the collarbone. On his back lightly trace the area from his hair to the top of his spine.

What to expect on an Taurus date

- Flirting with the bartender.
- Flirting with the guy at the next table.
- Flirting with your neighbor.
- Small venues like jazz or piano bars.
- Long walks down dark alleys.
- Dancing under the stars.
- Indoor or outdoor rock climbing.
- Picnics at the lake or ocean.
- Outdoor concerts or festivals.
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#44 - ric - 06/10/2010 - 21:59

Close, but no cigar

For the most part, what you say is true to my Taurian nature, but there are several things that I would disagree with:

Par 1: Semi-true...I'd rescue him from the steel clamp first, then I would spend hours trying to figure out the riddle :)

Par 2: Right on the nose; couldn't be any more true than that.

Par 3 thru 7: Right on the nose except for humor. I didn't see anything about it...despite our "stoic" personality, Taurians can actually be quite fun/funny, and enjoy other people and things that are. Give us a little help here!! :)

Under how to attract, para's 1 thru 3 are correct, but I don't obsess over money. It's true a "bird's nest" may exist here and there, but I think it falls under a type of security for Taurus rather than an obsession.

Under erogenous zones, I'm sticking to my true nature...take me out and wine and dine me for a while, and you can find out on your own. :)

Under what to expect on a date, all true except the flirting. When I'm dating or in a relationship, I'm not a flirt at all. Despite a few general looks around the place that is natural/typical for people to do, I can guarantee that my focus is strictly on the person I'm with, be it 1 day, 1 month, 1 year, 10 years. If you catch my heart and fulfill the above, then I'll be devoted in every sense until I take a dirt nap!

#43 - Jack - 03/23/2010 - 18:23

RISING and MOON make the difference in Gemini's flirtatiousness

When I am single...sure why not have fun. However in LOVE I have never Cheated on a lover/partner and actually was the more loyal no matter what sign they were. I have Leo Rising and Pisces moon and even my actual starchart say that unlike most other Gem's..I have the heart, desire and strength to remain in love and loyal. My Aquarian EX was full of lies and false promises and was the cheat in our relationship, not I

#42 - Bradford - 03/21/2010 - 16:27

To the gemini dating the taurus...
I'm a Taurus with a gemini.
Guys, the zodiac are great guidelines...
Don't let them be ANY deciding factor in a relationship.
Everyone has to compromise,
everyone has to sacrifice...
If you're willing, it won't ever kill you.

#41 - Las - 03/02/2010 - 06:48

i'm in love with a taurus but i know it's never going to work out :(

why do taurus men have to be so damn sexy? all i can say is if you're tryin to have a relationship with a taurus you're gonna have to work hard and find almost ANYTHING just to get in his comfort/sensitive zone.

#40 - blah - 02/15/2010 - 14:04

Gemini & Taurus

I am a Gemini and I am dating a Taurus. I feel like this is a picture frame of his personality. Despite the awful depiction of Gemini on this sight, my nervousness the article alludes to for my sign is a constant personal battle I have with any relationship. Perhaps it's my own murmurings of Mr. Hyde that I am afraid that my loved ones will cheat on me, it puts me on the defensive constantly, but the taurus I date is grounded and intelligent enough to make me feel comfortable, despite any distance or time spent apart. I know this is one of the most loyal signs I have encountered and it's up to me to battle my own demons. The relationship is therapuetic for me. The Taurus puts me on pedestal, but if I feel I start collecting dust, he has a way of knocking me off but catching me before I break. His armor is thick and if the Taurus lets you in, stay in and don't abuse the bull, otherwise you will be put outside his armor and have to work your way back in horns, bullish attitude and all. Being myself, I pushed my boundaries too far and was put outside his armor, don't forget the bull has horns and they are as sharp of my silver tongue can be piercing. If he comes at you, you're gonna have to throw the personality that caused the trouble in harms way as a sort of self-sacrifice. Working your way back in is tough and tiresome, but if the love is strong and sweet enough, its a great challenge to work back into. By putting milestones in front of us that my nature becomes entranced and fixated on accomplishing assures us that we can continually progress the relationship. He's slow and steady with his progress, like a glacier moving anything in his path. I'm blasting away in my rocketship to gather fuel reserves. Gemini's can be a very compatible match if the dynamics are just right. We are certainly on different paths, but I can be two places at once without a sweat. It boils down to keeping the candle burning and keeping the gasoline away from the flame. Gemini's can be like a gas station exploding, or as slow burning and warming as a oil lamp. Keep us entertained! Keep our imaginations stirring and see the flame dance. Don't hide anything from us, because we will analyze a pinhole into a grand canyon. I feel like the taurus's stoic nature often leaves many pinholes, if you look closely, you'll see only holes, but like a pointilist's painting, taking a step back to see the bigger picture, especially taking time to see the path the Taurus is sometimes... painfully...slowly travelling on is important for me to understand. An incredibly gifted Taurus will have a beautiful and methodical diagram layed out to traverse the far reaches of the universe. To be a part of his journey is mystical and tantalizing enough to keep on my feet. It's not easy, but what relationship is. Every sign has its demons to deal with, no sign is perfect. I just wanted to write this for anyone who is in our position.

#39 - Jim - 01/14/2010 - 02:59

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