Gay Libra Dating: The Couch Trip

Gay Libra Dating: The Couch Trip

The therapist of the Zodiac, Libras are widely prized for their “Prozac” effect on more highly-strung types, particularly Fire elementals. The only astrological sun sign represented by an inanimate object, namely, a set of scales, Librans are gifted with a talent for two-way communication critical to promoting balance and perspective in the face of raging fires.

Presided over by Venus, Goddess of Love, Librans have a unique knack for empathy as well as romantic connections, and often wind up together, like a pair of oxygen atoms linking up to form the molecule of Life.

A natural though often reluctant leader, Libras reign in the arts of communication. Diplomatic, charming and devoted to peace, he also tends to be a bit of a sucker and incurable flirt. These failings come from his habit of seeing both sides to every story, and from his sense of universal love, in which no adoring suitor is wholly unworthy.

Libras mate for life…the question is, with how many different partners? Despite craving lasting relationships for stability’s sake, Librans often get off the seesaw just to see it fly up.

While holding an idealistic loyalty to a partner, Librans have little sales resistance, especially when the product is flesh in his face. Some couples solve this problem by adding a third partner, or a fourth, or a roomful of sweaty strangers, or entire cruise ships including the Capitan and all the crew…

How To Attract Gay Libra

Libra can generally be found at the center of a small crowd, most often in bohemian coffee or book shops. He’ll stand out as a patient listener, which is unusual for those with a tendency to gab.

Perennial students of human nature, Librans feel obligated to give every member of the human race (and frequently animals as well) at least a few moments of attention. Having been shanghaied in the past by long-winded time thieves, however, he’ll curtly cut you off if your communication does not meet his exacting standards.

Lead Libra into a new realm of speculation, and the rapid-fire exchange of ideas can pass the night away with scarcely a notice of dawn. Nothing appeals to Libra quite so much as a dynamic meeting of the minds, and he’s not likely to take your body very seriously if he’s not impressed with what you pack between your ears.

Masters of the meandering topic, Librans enjoy discussing politics, religion, and philosophy in an offbeat and provocative way. Science, books, and of course, astrology are also great to bring up, if the dialogue is getting stale. Librans generally abhor a silence, and think aloud even when alone; so do your best to break those pregnant pauses.

Gay Libra Quirks & Erogenous Zones

He’s in a constant state of arousal and secretly wants to rock the world, so if you don’t bore him to flaccidity, it shouldn’t be hard to get things cooking. He enjoys a one-night celebration as much as anyone, but if he wants to see you a second time, he’s probably got a serious crush.

In love with love, Libra has an innate need to pair up, so he’s thinking about tomorrow even if you’re just cruising.

Typically endowed with juicy, rounded buttocks that beg to be groped, Librans are easily aroused by any sort of backrub, and not likely to protest if the massage wanders below the waist.

A yen for oral arts extends to the bedroom as well, where Libra is widely renowned as an enthusiastic participant on either end of the transaction, or, preferably, both. A slow, passionate lover who enjoys service for the pleasure it brings him, he’s more given to prolonged foreplay, than to exhausting acrobatics in the bedroom.

What to expect on a Libra date

Librans don’t date; they interview. By the end of the evening, you’ll be able to complete each other’s stories. Don’t interrogate him, though, or you’re prone to run across his pet peeve. He’ll answer an intelligent question or two, but expects you to intuit the truth or be content to live without it, if he deigns to keep details to himself.

Libra is eager to share the details of his unique study of the human condition, handing over his life’s story like last week’s paperback, but only in the fashion and order which suits his sense of plot development.

Librans go Dutch, as a rule; besides having a general affinity for the Netherlands, economic exchanges between lovers are tantamount to marriage. If you do decide to live together (lucky you!), he’ll be expecting to merge finances, life goals and wardrobes with his partner, moving through life as one unified body.

Want to talk about it?

virgo with libra

what is it with you Libras that make you all so damn attractive? I am the biggest perfectionist, but whenever i'm around some Libra guy, I go full out critical to hide the fact that I have the biggest crush on him! I turn more stuck up than usual, and it isn't fun at all >.> any ideas for me to get him or hint at me liking him? Cause I can't get that guard to go down >.>

#45 - virgo - 01/11/2012 - 02:26

I will love to get married!.

I'm one of those Libras that just want one and only man. I don't like a other person being with us, having sex. I will Love to get married yup yup.

#44 - Toby - 12/18/2011 - 04:45

Alexander Cross

Have you tried putting them in front of your needs? or at least try to be logical about a situation? try that and maybe you'll get a deeper connection with a libra. You scorpios are WAY too temperamental, it's cute to a certain point.

Keep at it, I know that you love the sexual tension with a libra! ;)

~Coraploy

#43 - Coraploy - 11/09/2011 - 00:38

balancing crazy.. lol

I am a total Libra and find that dating other Libras doesn't work. I would def say stick with Aquarias and Pisces. Cancer, Virgo, and Scorpios are prob the worst for us to date. Libras need for balance and making the right decision can def make us manic and anxious people. Libra's definitely yearn for a soul mate but probably have the hardest time of all the zodiac finding and keeping him!! Sexually we love sensual love making with partners and dirtier/more verbal type sex with hookups for sure. An open relationship with strict rules may work in Libra gay relationships. It's hard to be such a romantic yet most libras tend to be loners at heart in regards to long term relationships. Open up and trust people, be honest, stop thinking the grass is always greener and you may find the one. Libra's are great to have around in most situations i would have to say however..

#42 - Andrew - 11/08/2011 - 05:56

ARIES-LIBRA

i am currently with an aries and for me its heaven sometimes hes extremely frustrating because hes so last minute with his decisions .... wait a minute i thought i was supposed to be the indecisive one .... is it just me or are all libras jealous of the X's tht came before you ... this is a need advice sitch xxxx

#41 - Dyylan Cllarke - 11/04/2011 - 23:46

Libra recently dated Cancer

This is, by far, the most accurate prediction of a Libra. I strongly suggest that libras stay far away from Cancers. Unreasonable, unwilling to compromise, and very mean.

#40 - Michael - 10/05/2011 - 23:35

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